Find someone
not like your ex

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Find Connections!

We'll find people like your ex.

Feels like my ex

Appearance
92%😬
Personality
96%😬
Lifestyle
97%😬
High Similarity

Find Connections!

We'll find people not like your ex.

Definitely not my ex

Appearance
18%😊
Personality
22%😊
Lifestyle
12%😊
Low Similarity

Experience the difference

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Give Us The Scoop

Spill tea about your ex! Appearance, lifestyle, personality - every detail helps us find your perfect opposite.

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Tweak Your Preferences

Fine-tune what matters most. From lifestyle habits to personality quirks.

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EX-Tolerance Meter

Set your pickiness level and tolerance for ex-like traits. You're in complete control.

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Learns From Your Past

Our algorithm studies your previous relationship patterns to find different profiles.

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Blind-First Approach

See personality, lifestyle, and compatibility indicators before photos. Real connections start from within.

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Intentional Dating

No more mindless swiping. Every connection is meaningful, every detail has purpose.

How NOT MY EX works

Our super-smart matching algorithm learns from your past relationship.No more dating the same person with a different face.

STEP 1

Give us the scoop on your ex partner

Spill the tea! Tell us the appearance, lifestyle, and personality characteristics of your ex partner, and leave the rest to us.

STEP 2

Preference Matching

How picky are you? How many of your ex partner's traits can you tolerate?

STEP 3

Show your best self

Create your own profile, share your interests, and let us know what makes you amazing. No, really - you're awesome.

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STEP 4

Find Connections!

Our super-smart algorithm finds people who are DEFINITELY NOT like your ex.

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