Our Story

From a dorm room idea
to a dating revolution

It started with a simple observation: people keep dating the same person
with a different face. We decided to flip the script entirely.

The Spark

A common-room conversation

A couple of friends, one student common room, countless dating stories. The frustration was real, the laughter was loud, and then... the idea struck.

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The Name

notmyex.com registered

A sprint back to the dorm room, fingers flying across the keyboard. The domain was secured, and the journey began.

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The Problem

Why dating apps fail

Mainstream apps keep finding you with the same type. The cycle repeats. The heartbreak continues. Something had to change.

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The Solution

Flip the script

Instead of finding what you think you want, find the opposite of what you know you don't want.

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The Revolution

NOT MY EX is born

A dating experience that's intentional, fun, and uniquely personal. Because sometimes you don't know what you want, but you know what you don't want.

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