Leaving behind
Ex traits to avoid
The traits, red flags and patterns you want to leave in the past.
Quietly filtered out of your connections.
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The dating app that learns from your last relationship.
Find someone refreshingly new not your ex.
How it comes together
Know what didn't work. Find what might.
Two short lists shape every introduction you see.
Looking for
What you're looking for
The qualities that actually matter to you in a new connection.
The things we look for first.
So we suggest
People worth meeting
Nearby, and nothing like the pattern you left behind.
Marcus, 311 mile away94% aligned
Communicates the way you asked for.
Lily, 273 miles away89% aligned
Emotionally available, and steady with it.
Ethan, 302 miles away87% aligned
Brings out your adventurous side.