Our standards ensure everyone has a positive experience while finding connections that are truly right for them.
NOT MY EX is meant to be a safe, welcoming, and genuine space where people can connect and be themselves. These Community Standards outline the expectations for how everyone should behave, both on and off the app. Please take a moment to read them — violating these rules may lead to consequences, ranging from a warning to a permanent ban.
Everyone’s comfort level is different. Public profiles must not include nudity, sexual acts, sexual requests, or sexual services. In private chats, sexual content is only acceptable when all participants have clearly agreed. Consent is always required.
Don’t publicly share personal contact details (phone, email, social media handles) or sensitive data like bank details or passwords. Never ask others for theirs. Be cautious of anyone requesting money, investments, or financial help — these are often scams.
Do not post or promote gore, violent acts, threats, cruelty to animals, weapon use, or anything encouraging self-harm. If we believe someone may be at immediate risk, we may notify relevant services.
NOT MY EX is for personal connections, not for selling products, promoting businesses, fundraising, campaigning, or seeking paid sexual arrangements. This includes escort services, “sugar” relationships, or similar transactions.
Only represent yourself — no fake profiles, impersonation, or false identities, even as a joke. Each person may have only one account, and it can’t be shared. Post only content you created or have permission to share, and don’t upload others’ images, messages, or copyrighted materials without consent.
Engage politely, even when you disagree. Harassment, hate speech, threats, bullying, blackmail, or doxing are strictly prohibited. We do not tolerate discrimination based on race, ethnicity, nationality, religion, gender identity, sexual orientation, disability, body type, age, or any other personal characteristic.
Any action that threatens, encourages, or causes harm — physical, emotional, or financial — will be taken seriously. If you’ve been harmed, take care of yourself first, then let us know if you want to report it. We’re here to help.
You must be at least 18 to use NOT MY EX. No photos of minors (including your younger self) in sexual or suggestive contexts. No illegal activity — this includes drugs, counterfeit goods, trafficking, or anything harmful involving minors.
Don’t spread false information, spam, or harmful links. Don’t misuse reports, use bots, or exploit the system. Don’t harass or threaten NOT MY EX staff or partners.
NOT MY EX is a niche dating concept. Lean into it and enjoy connections in a new way.
As a member of the NOT MY EX community, we encourage you to speak up and speak out. If someone is causing you harm or is violating our Community Standards, report it. Your report is always treated as confidential. By reporting, you can help us stop harmful behavior and protect others.
We reserve the right to investigate and/or terminate accounts without a refund of any purchases if we find you have misused the Service or behaved in a way NOT MY EX deems inappropriate, unlawful, or in violation of our Terms of Use. This includes actions or communications that occur off the Service but involve others you meet through the Service.
To reach out or report something, please use the "Contact" page.