EX Portraits
Give us the scoop: the appearance, personality and lifestyle traits of your ex partner become signal we can actually use.
Bad communicatorJealousEmotionally unavailable
your history does the work.
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Features
Dating tools for clearer choices.
Every part of NOT MY EX is designed to help you notice fit, avoid old loops, and move into conversations with better signal.
Learns from your past
Our algorithm studies your previous relationship patterns to find profiles that feel genuinely different.
Same old typeSomeone new
the opposite of déjà vu.
Ex-Tolerance Meter
Set your pickiness level and tolerance for ex-like traits. You're in complete control.
Medium: some overlap is fine
you set the dial. we respect it.
Preference matching
Fine-tune what matters most, from lifestyle habits to personality quirks, weighted the way you weight them.
Appearance
Personality
Lifestyle
not vibes, priorities.
Blind-first approach
See personality, lifestyle and compatibility indicators before photos. Real connections start from within.
Robin, 29
Emotionally matureFunny
personality first. always.
Intentional dating
No more mindless swiping. Every connection is meaningful, every detail has purpose.
Priya, 282 miles away
A connection with context, not just a face.
no autopilot swiping.