How it works
Four steps, no mindless swiping. Name what did not work, define what you want next, and meet people who fit the future you are choosing.
Leaving behind
Tell us the appearance, lifestyle and personality traits of your ex partner: the red flags and patterns you are done repeating.
Quietly filtered out of your connections.
Preference matching
How picky are you? Choose how much of your ex partner's pattern you can tolerate, from total clean slate to a little familiarity.
Ex-Tolerance Meter
You set the dial. We respect it.
About you
Create your profile, share your interests and let us know what makes you amazing. No, really, you're awesome.
The things we look for first.
Suggested connections
Our Ex-Tolerance Algorithm finds people nearby who are refreshingly not like your ex, and shows you why.
Lily, 27Fresh Start
Emotionally available, and steady with it.
Ethan, 30Mostly New
Brings out your adventurous side.
Nothing like the pattern you left behind.
